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They will feel safer and more secure with their parents/carers

 

They will have a more secure attachment

 

Controlling behaviours will reduce

 

When stressed they might return to old ways of relating and behaving, perhaps becoming more controlling again, however it will be easier to help them manage this

 

They will find relationships easier and be able to regulate emotions more easily

 

They will manage stress and understand their emotional experience better

 

As they are helped to heal from the past trauma they will become more emotionally healthy

‘Dyadic’ means ‘something about two people’. This word was used because this therapy helps people with their relationships with other people. DDP specifically aims to help parents or caregivers and their child make deeper emotional connections with each other. ‘Developmental’ is used because the children and adolescents who have experienced developmental trauma may have had their emotional, social or cognitive development affected. This therapy aims to work out whether and how your child’s development might have been affected and, if so,  how you might be able to help them.

My sessions with parents/carers together with their children are informed by Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy and would ideally need to follow on from a series of 1:1 sessions with you on your own.

Dyadic Sessions

What would the sessions aim to do?

Reading books together

Telling or listening to stories

Nurturing activities

Drawing

Using creative activities, such as puppets or plasticine

Using toys or puppets

This link maybe helpful to decide

Is DDP right for your family?

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What do these words mean?

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What if my child won't talk about things?

Sometimes it will be too hard for your child to talk about what he or she has done or about tough feelings or memories. This is always OK. When this happens we will let your child know that this is fine and totally understandable. It doesn’t mean though that difficult things will be avoided or ignored.

 

Often, it means that I’ll slow down the conversation, focus longer on lighter, positive, and successful events first and more gradually introduce more difficult themes.

 

I might for example talk about things with you, while your child listens.

 

I might also talk for your child, helping him to find the words that describe his inner life of thoughts, feelings, and wishes.  Many children begin talking in DDP in ways and about events that they had rarely spoken about in the past.

 

I may ask you to try other ways of wondering about things during sessions which might include:

What changes might be expected in my child:

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Create a safe and emotionally containing environment

that helps positive relationships develop between you and your child

 

Provide a safe space for your child to explore thoughts, feelings and memories, including scary and unpleasant ones

 

Build trust

 

Help you share your child’s emotional experiences and

make sense of them together

 

Help your child to feel that his or her emotional experiences, thoughts, wishes, feelings, perceptions and motives are accepted and not made light of, or judged, by you.